{"id":33,"date":"2014-11-06T22:09:22","date_gmt":"2014-11-07T03:09:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.domtheodore.com\/?p=33"},"modified":"2014-11-06T22:09:22","modified_gmt":"2014-11-07T03:09:22","slug":"your-true-calling","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.domtheodore.com\/?p=33","title":{"rendered":"Your True Calling"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I admit it. I&#8217;m a sucker for those YouTube clips from shows like America&#8217;s Got Talent, X-Factor, etc, where you see an awkward looking misfit who \u00a0works the fast-food window as their day job get up on stage and the judges all roll their eyes as if they just KNOW it&#8217;s going to suck &#8211; then the misfit belts out a tune that takes the entire room by surprise. I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ve seen one at some point.<\/p>\n<p>Why are we so taken by those moments?<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s because deep down, we know that we ARE that person.<\/p>\n<p>No, we are not all capable of belting out a tune and making the room cheer, but I believe everybody &#8211; and I mean every single one of us &#8211; has something special to offer the world, if we would only be courageous enough to get up on that stage.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve always enjoyed working with talent. Through the years, I&#8217;ve discovered many good ones, and helped others that were already discovered get better. \u00a0And the secret is really simple &#8211; the talent usually knows the answer in their gut and for whatever reason (usually fear) they don&#8217;t listen to that internal voice. I simply teach them to listen to that voice and follow that instinct. One of my mentors, BJ Harris, who is a very successful morning host at KALC in Denver, used to say &#8220;follow your gut &#8211; it&#8217;s right 90% of the time, and those are pretty good odds.&#8221; And when I worked for him back in the day at WFLZ in Tampa, he actually let me do it. But what made him a great mentor wasn&#8217;t the fact that he let me follow my gut&#8230; but rather, the 10% of the time that my gut was wrong, he let me learn from it. It was okay to make a mistake and actually learn from it! And he didn&#8217;t crucify me for it. It was because of this environment that I took chances and knew that I could get up on that stage and go for it.<\/p>\n<p>You have something special to offer the world. I bet deep down you actually know what it is, but you ignore it or drown it in a sea of excuses. You are scared &#8211; worried what your friends might think, worried what your boss might think, or perhaps worried that you&#8217;ll fail. Don&#8217;t listen to &#8220;them&#8221;&#8230;.\u00a0Get up on that stage and show the world what you are made of!<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s the best part. Technology has given everybody a stage of their own. There are no gatekeepers anymore. You don&#8217;t need a transmitter&#8230; or a fancy camera&#8230; it has never been easier to show the world your gift.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m convinced that a lot \u00a0of the unhappiness in this world is due to people knowing their true calling deep down, but doubting themselves and accepting &#8220;just getting by&#8221; as their reality. \u00a0Greatness is a decision.<\/p>\n<p>The clock is ticking&#8230;. get up on that stage!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I admit it. 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